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Saturday, October 13, 2018

European Adventures - 12 Wedding Party at Stefan's, Saturday


12. Wedding Party at Stefan’s - Saturday
Receiving Line

It rained last night; it was a good drenching that cooled the air. Finally!

We had a lazy morning at ‘our’ apartment, did some chores, and wrote some notes. I was thinking of the rain last night and what might have happened if Stefan did not have the foresight to have a large wedding/party tent put up behind his house. Good man, this Stefan Knopf, he was prepared, there was no snafu, and all was under control. The whole affair of the wedding worked like clockwork. 

Father and Son Christopher
We were asked to be at the party again for the 2 pm formal reception. Ah, we thought, we have time, we will get there around 2.30 or even 3.00 and all will be ok, right?

Not in Germany! Aileen Paull sent an email at 2.09 pm with “Where are you?”

Well, ok, not far away, we walked over; we got there at 2.25 PM.

There was a receiving line when we got there; Stefan and Ira very formally, were again in their wedding clothing.

Stefan and His Daughters On the Left; Ira and Her Daughters On the Right
Everybody toasted the new couple with a glass of champagne. The catered affair was well organized, the service of the catering crew subdued but efficient. A huge crowd attended and everybody was dressed up, yet casually so. The temperature was perfect albeit a bit threatening of more rain, but it did not matter, we had this huge tent.

We just schmoozed till about 3.30 when cake was served. What am I saying ‘cake’, CAKES, maybe 15 or 20 of them? You would not believe the spread of bakery goods spread out on a row of tables. I have never seen anything like it. 
The Wedding Cake

The highlight was the wedding cake, a 3 tier construction consisting of 3 different flavors. Each layer had its own flavor, you could choose between lemon, mango or pistachio. And yes, that was just the wedding cake; all the other cakes were bakery cakes of whatever you could think of. Did you know that Stefan’s brother owns a bakery? Well you get the idea, right? Did you know that Stefan is a certified, trained baker himself?
More Sugar But Sooo Good

We all had a sugar high after this ‘Kaffeeklatsch’ and just hung out in the shade of the very old and big Chestnut tree that is the center of Stefan’s back yard. 
The Pistorius and Knopf Families, Joined

We hung out only for a bit, however, because at 6.00PM dinner started. A buffet of delicacies that defeats words was spread out. Many different meats, potatoes, vegetables and salads were offered. The personnel of the catering service never ran out of anything, some dishes were gone very fast yet were replaced with something new almost instantly. What an affair. How did they do that?
No More Rich Desserts For Me

Amazing Salad











More Salads








In the middle of it all, Stefan and Ira were gentle hosts, smiling, talking with each table, shaking hands, laughing and welcoming each and everyone to this bash.
This Is How the Bike Shop Looked On Friday Night - WOW!

I have never been to a wedding like this! And I doubt there will ever be another wedding just like it. Fabulous!  Thank you for inviting us! 

Thank you Stefan, thank you Ira...we are wishing you all the best for the future!

The Saturday Night Dance Band
They hired a large band which played in the large hall attached to the house (the room that used to be for motorcycle maintenance and storage but was emptied and cleaned up for this event). 

The music and dancing started. The dancing was in full swing when Carol and I left. We snuck away at about 9 + something pm.

This time, the band time, was for the young, our old bodies do not gyrate like that any longer.



Enjoying the Music
New Friends, Agnes and Donna

















Aillene and Mike
















Us

























Thursday, October 11, 2018

European Adventures - 11. Wedding of Stefan and Ira


11. Wedding of Stefan and Ira
Heidelberg Castle

We were up early to be in Heidelberg before the rush hour Friday traffic. Today is the day Stefan Knopf weds Ira Pistorius. It is a historical event; I would have never believed it because he told me many times he would never remarry. But here it is, and I am here to witness so I can write ‘It’s true’. 

I need to interject here:  the meaning of Knopf (German) is = Button (English). The question is: Once Stefan marries he is no longer a single button, but now there will be 2 buttons, so does Stefan needs to change his name to Knöpfe (The plural for button in German)?
Ira and Stefan With "Just Married Ribbon on the Sidecar and Handle Bars

Ah, all those details to think about. The couple solved the issue by keeping their original names, she is Ira Pistorius, and he remains Stefan Knopf. 

Ah, the couple…yes…smiles all around… they came via a side car motorcycle. Ira looked lovely. Stefan, I have never seen him really dressed up, looked dapper. Everyone wore big smiles. A small close family group piled into the small chamber of the official who then legalized the union; Papers were signed, hugs and kisses exchanged and voila… we have a new couple in the world. The “Knöpfe”!
Stefan and His 4 Children Plus Ira and Her 2 Daughters

Ah, yes, I explained that already, they kept their names… 

But they got married, I was there. It is true! And many people were there to witness the affair, the celebration of joining two lives.

Outside the town hall where the wedding took place was a large contingent of motorcycles. And then there were the ladies in black dresses, white gloves and white boas each holding long,
Ah Honour Guard for the Happy Couple
yellow tipped oars. They formed an arched lane to pass through when the newly-wed couple came out of the Standesamt and then later again when everybody drove off with their motorcycles. Those ladies were from a Club Ira belongs to. They smacked the paddles together in a loud clapping sound when the couple came back from their vows.

One family member of Stefan’s, Oliver, wanted to change his clothing, pick up some meds he forgot and we drove him to his place near where Stefan lives. He guided us out of town because we did not ride in; we used the rental car we had. 
Hot Dogs, Chicken and Sausage

It was easy to get out of town, even during rush hour with a local guide in the vehicle. Thank you, Oliver.

Salads and Bread
When we got back to Stefan’s place, the celebration was in full swing already. Lots of congrats, lots of people in his rather large yard but this was not the official party yet. This was just a ‘snack’ or lunch so nobody would go hungry. We had a hot dog, some salad and water and then went back to our place and parked the car again, we were within walking distance of Stefan’s place, no need for the car.

It was a genuine good feeling to see that Stefan and Ira tied the knot.

It was a wedding celebration I will not so easily forget. 

We were just leaving when Ira told us to be back later, for some pizza.

Practicing For Tomorrow's Wedding Cake
Food, food, food…. Well, we were close enough, so we did go ‘home’ and then came back later in the afternoon to just schmooze a bit more with all the other folks that just hung out at the Knopf compound. 

A huge pile of pizza’s arrived when we were back later and everybody dove into the pile, had a slice, and had another slice.  Then Ira’ came out with a cake she made, fabulous. Yummy! The food kept on coming.

To the point where… when Chris arrived a bit later, coming back from his gym time there was no pizza left. He had to eat cake; (Which he did not like). 
Ira's Cake - Soooo Good

Ah, the youth, they have their own ways but … they will have to learn to adapt (hopefully).

Tomorrow is the real party at the Knopf’s place.  I felt for the new couple, they had lots of company; the party was still going on when we left a bit later.


Stefan Is Wearing a Pin With 2 Red Buttons Joined